Day: August 7, 2019

Brandon Webb, John David Mann “Mastering Fear: A Navy SEAL’s Guide”

We all fear something—some things more, some less. And some fears begin to eat us up from the inside. The recently released book Mastering Fear tries to show how to change our attitude toward fear. Not to defeat it, because fear will remain, but to stop falling into a state of shock or paralysis because of it.

Formally, the book has two authors, but all the descriptions state that it’s a book by former Navy SEAL Brandon Webb, and the narrative itself is built as though it’s told by one person. So, let’s assume that John David Mann simply helped Webb “package” his thoughts properly.

Webb did indeed serve as a U.S. Navy SEAL, was a sniper, and later trained snipers. So, he’s immediately seen as someone who “knows no fear”—a real macho who eats fears for breakfast by the hundreds.

However, using his own past as an example, he shows that soldiers are simply trained to control their fear. He then shares his method for managing fear. He says: “You don’t need to fight fear. You need to accept it.”

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A Housewife Against Society

Looking around, I’ve concluded that one of the most devalued things in today’s world is the role of a mother and keeper of the home. Saying in polite society that you’re a housewife is like blowing your nose on the tablecloth. At best, they won’t understand you; at worst… Of course, some of the critical remarks are based on real dangers. Many men, when leaving their families, tend to forget about their previous one, and it doesn’t matter if the man was the one insisting that their children shouldn’t go to daycare and that the wife should stay at home. Starting work at 30+, let alone at an older age, is very difficult. But beyond that, being a housewife is not just unfashionable, it’s humiliating. There’s this pervasive notion that a non-working woman will inevitably become uninteresting to her husband, that she is far inferior to the woman who builds a career—not just in terms of opportunities, but also in intelligence and beauty. By default, she’s seen as growing dull, wrapping herself in the kind of robes that seem to say “goodbye, youth,” as if aging faster simply by staying home.

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